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Post by feelingchimpy on Sat Jul 09, 2016 5:45 pm

I don't normally post stuff like this in public because its kindof private, but I know a bunch of you guys from Swizeo were aware of my relationship and it lasted for so long that I feel like I should say at least something?

I broke up with Matthew, but don't worry about it because it was what I needed to do. I wasn't happy in the relationship anymore, haven't been for awhile, and I finally had the courage to do what I've known I should have done awhile ago.

My advice for anybody it might apply to is do what is best for yourself in these situations. If you're unhappy, don't stay in a relationship for four years after you want out just to try to avoid hurting your partner. I try to put others before myself most of the time but there are times when you need to consider yourself above others.

I haven't been single for five years and as somebody who doesn't deal well with change I'm mildly terrified, but I know I did the right thing.

I could say lots of things about Matthew, but I won't. I don't want this situation to turn into a bashfest. He could probably say a lot about me too anyways. If you guys want details though I /can/ PM you if you want, but just know that I'm happy with my decision and I'm 100% okay.

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Re: Welp.

Post by Mocking on Mon Jul 11, 2016 8:23 am

It's good that you're happy, then! I know a lot of people who force themselves to stay in relationships they don't like, and it definitely sounds like a bad time.
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Re: Welp.

Post by feelingchimpy on Mon Jul 11, 2016 5:10 pm

Thanks Mocking <3 I feel so much better now, and Courage has been helping me through this more than I can express.

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